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The Imam's Daughter
Tuesday, October 31, 2006
Cute Kid Quote
Mood:  cheeky
Topic: Child Rearing

I'm in the kitchen slicing up some (homemade) pizza for the kids when i overhear this cute conversation.

The kids are on the front steps, waiting for their pizza. (It happens to be a mild day in Mass today.)

A neighbor, an old grey-haired man, is walking from his car to his unit says to my kids as he passes them: "Hi there kids! Are you going out trick or treating?"

My just turned 5 year old daughter says: "No, We are Muslims."

The man says: "What?"

daughter: "We're Muslims."

The man: 'Oh.'

Me: quietly snickering with a wide smile.

   

Want to know Islam's position on Halloween, see here:

 http://islam.about.com/library/weekly/aa103098.htm

"So many people participate in these celebrations without even understanding the history and the pagan connections, just because their friends are doing it, their parents did it ("it's a tradition!"), and because "it's fun!"  Allah described such people in the Qur'an:

"When it is said unto them, 'Come to what Allah has revealed, come to the Messenger,' they say, 'Enough for us are the ways we found our fathers following.'   What!  Even though their fathers were void of knowledge and guidance?" (Qur'an 5:104)"

"Holidays are not just excuses to binge and be reckless.  In Islam, our holidays retain their religious importance, while allowing proper time for rejoicing, fun and games.

"Finally, Allah warned us about following in the footsteps of those who discard faith:

"Has not the time arrived for the believers, that their hearts in all humility should engage in the remembrance of Allah and of the Truth which has been revealed to them?  That they should not become like those to whom was given the Book aforetime, but long ages passed over them and their hearts grew hard?  For many among them are rebellious transgressors." (Qur'an 57:16)"


Posted by UmIbrahim at 4:43 PM EST
Updated: Tuesday, October 31, 2006 4:46 PM EST

Tuesday, October 31, 2006 - 8:22 PM EST

Name: "suhaa"
Home Page: http://stanceofamuslimah.blogspot.com

i love this post um'ibraheem. it reminds me of  a few conversations my kids also had with adults. the pharamacist asked Mercy "so are you excited about halloween?" and she said "i don't celebrate halloween, i'm Muslim and i had eid!!"  and at the doctor's office the other day the nurse offered ayah halloween stickers and so she politely said no thank you..but when the nurse  offered her other nice stickers she gladly took them. today was a busy day, but its so important to not only teach kids that we dont do these types of holidays but to explain to them why not at a level which they can understand. as they get older saying because they are muslim isnt going to be enough. ive even told my 3 yr old that Shaitan loves to try and trick us in pretending that halloween iis the best time..but Shaitan can't trick those who love Allah...because we are smarter than him.

i used to up until last year teach the kids we dont celebrate it but its ok to give candy because we should always share with those who ask. but this year we just turned off the lights and i explained to them that although we love to share they will know we are Muslim and maybe learn about why halloween isnt a good holiday. so the kids had fun peaking out through the blinds and sharing a flashlight..and had candy before bed.. :-) they got a little "proud" and started saying things like "we love Allah more and He's the Best, so whenever Shaitan tries to trick us we'll say Authubillahi minel Shaitan arRajeem..because we want the treats of Jannah, not the treats of Shaitan!. I was so happy to hear these words from them, because I've been teaching lots about halloween to them this month, so this was like my payoff :-)

may Allah guide us further and protect our kids from the tricks and treats of shaitan!

suhaa

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